---i met you during the height of norman alcala's performance. we stood by each other to "crash" this person posing as somebody who's not. then we became familiar and treated each other as family. our friendship went beyond facebook, formspring and myspace. we burned the wires on the internet, talked about what-nots on skype, exchanged messages on the celfone, sent each other packages, cried on each other's shoulders. why, you even declared yourself as my "daughter" on facebook!
---of all things i have always hated are lies, deceit comes next. you suggested that i be friends with b.s.j., also a libera fan. we hit if off right away because we are almost of same age. i can relate to b. and i find her a good person. now, all too suddenly, you commanded me to delete her for reasons you withheld. then i found, through you, too cynthia kurleto aka cindy, whom i requested to add because i liked her at the time she was a celebrity here years back. then out of the blue, you dictated to me again to delete CK because she and b cannot be seen on my page! again i demanded for a reason. and here's your part of the story... cousin "caroline" used cindy kurleto's picture for her profile, pretended to be cindy, cooked up a miserable story for bsj to believe. why, it was just a simple case of lying!!! so why not make it up for bsj and admit the lie - and you said "yes, but in her own time".....
"in her own time"...because this "caroline" was already asking a large amount of money from bsj? and she was still buying some time to milk her more, am i right? now comes bsj's side which she voluntarily offered to me yesterday, good friday. your story was unbelievable!!! script nicely done to make it appear that it's really happening. and how much did you take out from the woman, miles away from here? $3,500.00 computed in pesos @43/$ is 150,500 pesos!! now tell me, is caroline (to me), marie (to bsj) and you one and the same person? congratulations, you just won in a lottery without buying a single ticket!!
who am i to condemn you? you asked for compassion, care, understanding - for what? for extorting money from people? just what kind of a person are you? we are all in a financial fix right now but extorting money from an innocent person or any person for that matter is not in any way on my agenda.
using other people's photos, profile and details is prohibited, you know that and yet you did so much damage to cindy kurleto to extort money from another person. you knew it was wrong and yet you tolerated - all for the love of money.
now it dawned on me could you be norman alcala too? you have the same style - you're all professional posers. could that picture of norman here on my blog a picture of an innocent person picked randomly on the internet?
stay away from callum, stay away from izzo and tom cully's friends! stay away from libera and stay away from the internet!!!
Saturday, April 23, 2011
....THE UNSUB....
The Unsub
by Anna Carmela Guzman on Saturday, April 23, 2011 at 1:40pm
College thesis taught me that attitude is a person’s way of thinking over a short period of time. It could change from day to day, weekly and in a month. Behavior, on the other hand, takes longer to acquire. It’s all the factors of a person’s past and present. You take into consideration a person’s educational, socio-economical and family background to come up with the reason why he behaves in a certain way.
In everything a person does, there’s always a WHY. That’s the first thing you should always ask yourself to get into the mind of someone. Why does he arrange his clothes in a certain way? Why does he love kids? Why is she a man-hater? Why does a full-grown adult refuse to eat vegetables? Every move has a reason behind it.
A person acts a certain way because of a stressor. A stressor could be a lot of things – abuse, traumatic childhood, broken relationships, bullying – the list could go on. Then, as that person grows older, he finds ways to act on these frustrations. A kid who didn’t have a father or a mother growing up could tend to look for an older partner, in the same way that an eldest child in the family might look for a partner who would take care of her because all her life she’s been taking care of her siblings. Nothing’s wrong with this, it’s human nature. We all have needs and we find satisfaction in other people.
There are however, instances when acting on life’s frustrations can become dangerous. One frustration could lead to another when the former is not met. Some often resort to extreme ways that could later on damage relationships and reputations. It’s typical to be scared, to desperately cover tracks and to try to save whatever’s left.
I’m saying this because after 27 (and counting) episodes of what could be the best crash course in human psychology, I can easily read through your actions now. Am I mad? Hell yes. I’m Jason Gideon-level pissed. In all my online life, I’ve come to hate posers. I’ve been reporting accounts of people who I know are not who they claim to be and yet one is circling right under my radar undetected.
I pretty much let my Mom be when it comes to her Facebook account. She belongs to the small statistic of uber-active Facebook users in her age range. When I come home she’s always got something to share about who she met, who she’s been talking to. Being the cyber-bitch that I was years ago, I make sure to constantly remind her to be careful of what she shares and more importantly, who she shares it with.
I’ve seen her sleep at 5am over some asshole who posed as a certain person who resides in London. Oh, since when was London where Enchanted Kingdom is?
But just like all things in life, it can get worse.
Worse, because my family treated you as one of us. Worse, because I know you’re important to my Mom because I’m pretty sure you kept her company when she needed one. I didn’t mind installing Skype and her staying up late because I know she was happy she could talk to someone. Worse, because you took posing to an entirely new level.
We all have problems – emotionally, physically, financially, spiritually. I’m dealing with all of that right now, believe me. But the last thing on my mind is taking advantage of a person’s trust and using it to my benefit.
So going back to what I established in the beginning, why are you doing this? Why take on an identity you know is not yours and take advantage of a person’s trust in you? Was letting my Mom add CK your way of admitting to her about what you’re doing wrong? Because you could’ve easily refused to let her add CK. But you did, then you did some damage control over something my Mom was totally clueless about. Come to think of it, there wouldn’t be this issue if you didn’t pressure her to delete either CK or B. That in itself has guilt written all over it.
But you can turn this around. Sure you’re guilty and you’re scared but right now anything is better than continuing what you’re doing. The best damage control is to ‘fess up, not spinning new stories. And you know it.
One of the things I learned in those 27 episodes is to show compassion to unsubs who acted on a stressor that stems to when they were still young. It’s psychological. It’s their way of coping. So at some corner in this brain of mine, there’s a little bit of understanding. But the rest is just fed-up with bullshit.
I don’t need any more explanations and stories. You know who you’re answerable to. And by all means consider this a threat when I say I have connections to the real person involved.
Take care of my mom? Damn straight, I will. And I’m beginning by keeping her from people like you.
by Anna Carmela Guzman on Saturday, April 23, 2011 at 1:40pm
College thesis taught me that attitude is a person’s way of thinking over a short period of time. It could change from day to day, weekly and in a month. Behavior, on the other hand, takes longer to acquire. It’s all the factors of a person’s past and present. You take into consideration a person’s educational, socio-economical and family background to come up with the reason why he behaves in a certain way.
In everything a person does, there’s always a WHY. That’s the first thing you should always ask yourself to get into the mind of someone. Why does he arrange his clothes in a certain way? Why does he love kids? Why is she a man-hater? Why does a full-grown adult refuse to eat vegetables? Every move has a reason behind it.
A person acts a certain way because of a stressor. A stressor could be a lot of things – abuse, traumatic childhood, broken relationships, bullying – the list could go on. Then, as that person grows older, he finds ways to act on these frustrations. A kid who didn’t have a father or a mother growing up could tend to look for an older partner, in the same way that an eldest child in the family might look for a partner who would take care of her because all her life she’s been taking care of her siblings. Nothing’s wrong with this, it’s human nature. We all have needs and we find satisfaction in other people.
There are however, instances when acting on life’s frustrations can become dangerous. One frustration could lead to another when the former is not met. Some often resort to extreme ways that could later on damage relationships and reputations. It’s typical to be scared, to desperately cover tracks and to try to save whatever’s left.
I’m saying this because after 27 (and counting) episodes of what could be the best crash course in human psychology, I can easily read through your actions now. Am I mad? Hell yes. I’m Jason Gideon-level pissed. In all my online life, I’ve come to hate posers. I’ve been reporting accounts of people who I know are not who they claim to be and yet one is circling right under my radar undetected.
I pretty much let my Mom be when it comes to her Facebook account. She belongs to the small statistic of uber-active Facebook users in her age range. When I come home she’s always got something to share about who she met, who she’s been talking to. Being the cyber-bitch that I was years ago, I make sure to constantly remind her to be careful of what she shares and more importantly, who she shares it with.
I’ve seen her sleep at 5am over some asshole who posed as a certain person who resides in London. Oh, since when was London where Enchanted Kingdom is?
But just like all things in life, it can get worse.
Worse, because my family treated you as one of us. Worse, because I know you’re important to my Mom because I’m pretty sure you kept her company when she needed one. I didn’t mind installing Skype and her staying up late because I know she was happy she could talk to someone. Worse, because you took posing to an entirely new level.
We all have problems – emotionally, physically, financially, spiritually. I’m dealing with all of that right now, believe me. But the last thing on my mind is taking advantage of a person’s trust and using it to my benefit.
So going back to what I established in the beginning, why are you doing this? Why take on an identity you know is not yours and take advantage of a person’s trust in you? Was letting my Mom add CK your way of admitting to her about what you’re doing wrong? Because you could’ve easily refused to let her add CK. But you did, then you did some damage control over something my Mom was totally clueless about. Come to think of it, there wouldn’t be this issue if you didn’t pressure her to delete either CK or B. That in itself has guilt written all over it.
But you can turn this around. Sure you’re guilty and you’re scared but right now anything is better than continuing what you’re doing. The best damage control is to ‘fess up, not spinning new stories. And you know it.
One of the things I learned in those 27 episodes is to show compassion to unsubs who acted on a stressor that stems to when they were still young. It’s psychological. It’s their way of coping. So at some corner in this brain of mine, there’s a little bit of understanding. But the rest is just fed-up with bullshit.
I don’t need any more explanations and stories. You know who you’re answerable to. And by all means consider this a threat when I say I have connections to the real person involved.
Take care of my mom? Damn straight, I will. And I’m beginning by keeping her from people like you.
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